What's the saddest party?

 Answer: Third Party

I was thinking of a new topic when I accidentally heard this song from Hinder, Lips of an Angel. I have always liked it. I dunno, my ears just find ironic lyrics delectable *LOL!*. Anyway, why did I choose to feature this song?
I just wanted everyone to listen to it. That simple, hehe. ^^

Whenever I hear this song I can't help imagining things. Haha! Oh yeah. I got lots of it. I'm sure most of us here has experienced being a victim of a 3rd party relationship or sometimes the culprit itself. So from the lyrics of this song, we learned that the guy's still inlove with his ex. He even wishes that his girlfriend is her. Cruel, right? But don't worry guys, even girls have felt this too (comin' from the lips of an angel hehe JustKidding!) From the lyrics, the girl initiated the call, so we can say the that girl was the setter (HON, again? haha!). Nahh, you don't have to assume that just because an ex wanted to talk to you, they mean to win you back. Uh-oh!

Rule #1, never assume.
Rule #2, move forward.

Q: What if you don't know that you're the third wheel?
A: Then you're also a victim. Unless you continue being one after knowing it.

Okay, I won't explain this anymore. You're all big boys and girls, you already know how 3rd party works. (Truth is, one of my readers have complaint about the length of my blog, so I'll keep it short this time. Hehe.)



LESSON:
Well, in most cases, people tend to blame the 3rd party as the culprit. But have you ever wondered, that if you have a healthy relationship with your significant ones, those 3rd party will not evolve? Third party will not take place in the picture if you have a smooth sailing relationship. So before you start pointing finger on whose to blame, take a look in your relationship before the 3rd party came in.

Were you and your significant ones really happy?
 Or both of you were just pretending to be?

Note: Communication is always the key to every relationship.